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Trish Reader's avatar

How I found this essay I don’t know.. it came up in my feed.. and while scanning it, for an unknown reason I decided to go back and read from the beginning.

It feels like a gift, John, that I get to read your story. 💞

Thank you for telling your mom the truth, and for telling your story here. I feel like I want to go back with you whenever you’re remembering.. maybe if you want, I could be there beside you, just be there with you, silently and in the shadow, holding your hand as you confirm to your mom she will die, and maybe you’re not alone when you remember facing her reaction.. because what you said was very difficult and tough and beautiful and bold and honest and true and good.

With so much love and hugs ❤️

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Liz Doyle's avatar

‘My mother’

So much rawness in there, thank you John

I’m glad you said that ‘yes’ though I’m sure it was hard and probably still is hard, and maybe always will be.

It’s something we nearly all go through, the death of a parent, or both parents. Perhaps that’s the way it should be, for isn’t it every parents worst fear, to bury a child?

Good to connect in here.

I don’t eat donuts 🍩 ☺️

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